‘F’ It All

The past 2 years have been an undeniable whirlwind! So many of us have attended more virtual funerals, extended deepest condolences, reformulated our master life plans, cancelled people, places and things from our lives, and stepped out on faith more than ever before. Collectively, we are living in a surreal world where the term “normalcy” has been flipped on its head. Many of us have given up on saving the good life for later, fitting the fictitious mold created by society, and basically we are all sitting in our respective spaces and have said….’F’ it all in one way or another! This pandemic life is too durn much, and we are not seeing a clear end in sight!

I hear you! I feel you! I see you!

I have taken these past two years to contemplate the many ways to improve my life and that of my family. I have actually learned to do ABSOLUTELY nothing that does not have my greater good at heart! In fact, I have given myself permission to master it unapologetically! I have said on countless occasions FORGET this, I have given more of myself to others than they deserve and I am resolved that those days are behind me. I can say thank you to CORONA for that. I thank this forced respite for allowing me to face the inequities that existed in my ships (friendships, relationships, partnerships), by incinerating all of the interactions that did not serve me. Ultimately, this new perspective freed me from the burden of their existence and place in my life!

I took the time to share what I have learned in a long anticipated e-book entitled ‘F’ IT ALL! It is not what you may think it is, it’s so much more! I hope you enjoy reading it as much as I enjoyed creating it!

Presale begins on my 49th Solar Return 2/21/22!

Order here: https://bit.ly/3p1AE7g

Please share your reflections with me! Thank you to my tribe! We are in this growth resurgence together!

My best,



Many people ask me who am I, who do I identify with, why do I think as I do, and most definitely what propels me to do the things that I do.

My answer is simple….I must live my most authentic life, and always be in the truest essence of myself. I do not surround myself with people, places, and things that do not resonate well with me. I do not apologize for my views, because I own them in every shape and form. I take ownership and responsibility for where my life is, and where it is not! As a direct result of this core belief, I am motivated to get up each day and try my hand at it again.


I often say that one has no control over their childhood, however one has full dominion over their adulthood. As a product of Caribbean descent, I grew up with firm rules, values, and principles. As a child I was a scholar,  very independent, and strong minded. By no means was it easy as a child, but I am actually grateful for my life experiences, because they have honestly shaped who I am today.


I am a woman, mother, wife, and entrepreneur. I most certainly am not super human, but I have a particular set of skills that make me an arsenal of awesomeness! As I actively pursue living my life unapologetically, I am determined to enjoy my days, by whatever means necessary! Through the years, I have blossomed and my confidence has grown so much, admittedly stepping out of my comfort zone has been the main catalyst for this growth. As a woman in my 40’s my life is surreal at times, insane at others, and very gratifying mostly. Can you relate?


Well my challenge for every person that reads this blog post today is to ask yourself a series of edifying questions…..

Who are you?

What are you grateful for?

What motivates you?

What limits you?

What are you doing with your dash?

What will you do today, that your future self will thank you for?

**Share your responses in the comments below…..I want to know what moves you!**